Divorced Bud, 21

Never Married Milagros, 37

Single Trula, 32

I need some advice, my husband and I have been together for 14 years and he has been unemployed for months couples seeking fuck and months while I work 10-14 hour days 6-7 days a week. He has had a drinking problem for years now and keeps promising he is done but every time I go to work he somehow gets the money to go buy a bottle of whiskey. He does nothing around the house while I work, and now I find he is talking to women online and he has actually responded to a post on the singles forums on here requesting the women send him and they talk. He has posted profiles on singles forums and he has thousands of pics of naked women all over his computer. He says it is my fault because I was snooping, but honestly that was not how it started out, I began snooping after I found he had posted on a singles forum. He makes me feel terrible about myself, complete strangers at work make me feel better about myself than he does. I do him with all of my heart and I want our marriage to work and he says he does too but I do not believe him. I have given him all of my passwords to every account I have and he keeps changing his and swears he has nothing to hide just likes his privacy, but I am sorry but feels like hiding something to me. I feel as a couple we should have nothing to hide from one another. He honestly does nothing for our relationship anymore but cause harm. He keeps pushing me and our away with his drinking and I just do not know what to do any more. The house is in his name so I can not kick him out, and I do not want to lose my house. I have our to think about as well, and have no where to go and no money to relocate with because every I make goes to keeping the utilities on. I want my husband back, the I fell in with and married but I can not keep living like this any longer. I am lonely because he alienates me for booze and I try to tell him this and he says he is done until the next day. There is always a reason to drink, he is stressed, he had a bad day, he is sore, any thing. Every time is another excuse and he went to counseling for awhile and quit going cuz "it did not help" he went to 3-4 aa meetings and quit going because "it did not help" and he got meds from the doctor that is supposed to help alcoholics and he swore that would work but he never takes it. What can I do. Is there for my marriage? Divorced Beula, 54

Single Trent, 21