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So I've responded to a couple of real sounding adds on here but no one ever writes back. So I'll post my own and see what happens. I'm originally from here, was gone for 7 years, and moved back about 6 months ago. All the friends I had before have kids or full time jobs or are just plain too busy to hang out. Or they live out of state or out of the country. So that leaves me with my husband, who is cool and all, but some girl time would be nice. He's not a fan of watching corny movies, going shopping, or hiking in the woods... though we did just get him a bike to see if that works better for him over hiking. But I know he won't want to go as often as I would like, so someone who also rides a bike would be cool. Any of the trails really, Miami White Water, Loveland, Lunken, Winton Woods... ect. I have a SUV big enough to throw your bike in if you don't have a rack for your vehicle. Someone who's into things I'm not would be neat, just for the sake of trying new things. In a totally platonic way! It's weird that under "platonic" you have to mention specifiy that you're looking for REALLY platonic. To each his own, but there's different categories to post under for a reason. Avoids confusion. Looking for someone fit who can do the outdoors stuff. Someone fun, talkative, a little spontaneous. For example, we have a plan, but then something pops up that sounds fun, so we go do that instead. Someone who has ideas of things to do, so that we both contribute... instead of doing the same thing over and over, or the whole "I don't know, what do you want to do?" conversation. You can be a little weird, cause I am too. But I'm not closet weird... not like you think you know me and then BAM! something crazy. LOL, not that kind of weird at all. About the only friend type I can't have is one who continually screws up, asks for advice, doesn't listen, and then screws up again.. in a cycle of repeated drama. I mean, really? You can't do the same thing over and over and expect a different result. After the second time, I'm pretty well done with the drama and the "poor pitiful me, life sucks" act. I'm only the supportive friend if you are actually making the needed changes. I won't be supportive to a procrastinator or someone who's not committed to doing what they say they're going to do. I try to be happy and positive just because it makes the day more fun. I can't put up with a lot of negativity, and am the WORSE shoulder to cry on because I always want to change the mood and make jokes. I'm the friend you after you got done talking to the "good shoulder" who cries with you and tells you everything will be alright. Then you go out for drinks with me after you've gotten the emotional stuff out of the way. I'm one of those strong, solid types that doesn't cry over the little things. Needs to be pretty dang serious for me to get all emotional. Not looking for a mooch, or someone who has to get high or drunk to have fun. Just a real person, who has a sense of independence, can function as an adult, who makes responsible decisions but isn't serious all the time. No children would be nice. Or an older child... the little ones scare me. Easy to get along with, not full of drama. Generally likable until someone ticks you off. More of the "guys girl" type than a prissy girl. I don't want to get all dressed up every time we hang out. Plus you ever try to go hiking with a prissy girl? They don't handle the early morning spiderwebs very well, IF you can even get them out of bed early enough to be the first hikers on the trail. Which I am rarely up that early myself, but sometimes I'm a morning person and sometimes I'm not, just depends. If you think we'll get along, write and tell me about yourself. Anything really, if you're stuck, tell me about the funniest thing that's ever happened to you. Or the best place you've ever been. Or the dumbest guy you ever met, or the top 10 things you'd like to try... whatever. We don't have to agree on everything or have high hopes of insta-BFFs.. since most of the people who are all like "OMG we're totally bestest best friends" turn out to be fake or full of drama after the first week. |